When you get angry, I will do my best to understand why and do whatever I can that makes the most sense. (I like to solve problems.)
But understand that I find outrage unhinged. That isn't from lack of experience or exposure or coping skills. It's from an excess of those.
I differentiate myself from others by not being like that.
Maybe that isn't always best, but you know what? It often is.
And I am finite. I do not have to be the be-all end-all. It's ok for my take to be one take, and not fully complete in itself.